Everyone wants better relationships in their lives.
Soulmate and twin flames are the romantic connections many people hope to attain for themselves. Many believe that once they meet theirs, it will be a relationship with no ups and downs. And that may very well be true in some cases.
However, the truth is soulmate and twin flame relationships can be as dysfunctional as any other relationship. It would be wonderful if spiritual relationships run smoothly. They can, but more often than not, they don’t.
Do you want to have better relationships with your soulmate or twin flame? If you do, you have to make some changes. Something went wrong along the way that needs attention. Here are some tips for better relationships for twin flames and soulmates. You can use these tips to help create better relationships going forward. Some of these tips will enable your relationship to stay the course for the long haul. This is what everyone should want with their soulmate or twin flame.
TIPS FOR BETTER RELATIONSHIPS
The first tip is acceptance. Of course you should never accept bad behavior that crosses your boundaries or is disrespectful in any way. What we’re referring to is accepting your soulmate or twin flame for who they are. If they love sports and you don’t, that should be ok with you. You aren’t required to have the same interests. If they aren’t as neat as you are when it comes to housekeeping, don’t make it more of a big deal than it should be. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
Trying to change your partner to be exactly as you want them to be can lead to problems down the road. Getting angry at them or building resentments when your high expectations aren’t met is sure to cause problems. Again, we don’t mean you shouldn’t want them to make changes that would benefit the relationship. We’re talking about their desire to change things just because you don’t like those things about them. In reality these things are not a really big deal. If they like sports and you don’t, you do not have to go to all the sporting events with them. Use the time apart to spend time with your friends, family, or whatever makes you happy.
2. Time Apart
Soulmates and twin flames, like everyone else, can benefit from time apart. If they want to spend Sundays watching tv, use your Sunday to do something you enjoy solo. Soulmates and twin flames can and do have different interests. There’s nothing wrong with that.
They don’t have to be with one another 24 hours a day, seven days a week to have a strong, healthy relationship. Soulmates and twin flames, and everyone else, don’t have to give up what they enjoy for a relationship to flourish. They do, of course, have to give up what goes against the boundaries of a relationship.
Another tip is to make sure there’s balance in the relationship. One partner’s needs or desires should not be constantly and continually met while the others are ignored. There’s nothing wrong with taking a backseat from time to time. But when it gets to be too much, or too often, the imbalance creates a selfish behavior where one is being taken for granted. That’s not a habit you want to feed too long.
Communicating about what really interests each of you, and what’s important to both of you, is important for a better relationship. Couples grow apart when they stop communicating about what’s really important to them as an individual. Listening is important but offering advice or your opinion is not always necessary. A good tip is to find time at least once a week to spend some time alone talking, with no distractions.
Don’t think a spiritual connection is all you need to keep your relationship moving in the right direction. It takes genuine effort and making what you share with a twin flame or soulmate a priority.