Relationship Mistakes for Soulmates and Twin Flames

Relationship mistakes can put soulmates or twin flames on the wrong path.

Many think soulmate and twin flame relationships are easy relationships. But that’s far from the truth. Because soulmates and twin flames have such deep, intense emotions, they can go from 0 to 100 very quickly. They tend to love hard and play hard. The highs are very high and the lows are very low.

Soulmates and twin flames can make relationship mistakes the same way every other couple can. No relationship is perfect and they all take work. Don’t think that just because you’re in a spiritual union your relationship will be mistake-proof. There more than likely will be drama and/or conflict in your relationship.


Many spiritual partners have many relationship mistakes in common. One of the main mistakes is that soulmates and twin flames can move too fast. While that may work for a chosen few, it can set the stage for one of the partners to pull a runner. Soulmates and twin flames often give the relationship 100% right from the get go. They get caught up in the whirlwind and it’s very difficult to transition smoothly into reality.

It’s so hard for spiritual couples to move slowly at the start because organically the pace is set to move quickly. When the transition from fantasy to reality occurs, the mind and emotions are at war. The emotions feel real, but the mind says it’s too soon to be this comfortable. And it’s way too soon to feel this much.

Relationship Mistakes for Soulmates and Twin Flames
Relationship Mistakes for Soulmates and Twin Flames

So one of the soulmate or twin flames freaks out and runs. So to avoid this mistake, try your best to keep your feet on the ground. Don’t allow the relationship to develop too quickly. We understand this is easier said than done, but it is really the best advice we can give.


Another common soulmate and twin flame mistake is lowering your relationship standards. Do you accept bad behavior from your soulmate or twin flame? Your partner should be held to a higher standard, not a lower one. If you do lower your standards for them, expect a lower level relationship. And if you lower those standards consistently, you will build patterns and habits that will take years to break.

On the opposite side of that mistake is having unrealistic expectations of your partner and your relationship. Yes, the universe creates the connection between the two of you. But it didn’t create a perfect relationship for the two of you. You and your soulmate or twin flame must create that together. It’s not going to happen by magic.

Your soulmate or twin flame is not going to do everything perfectly. They will screw up occasionally. They are human. If you expect perfection from a partner, you’re setting them up for failure and yourself up for disappointment.

There may be some couples in spiritual union that have almost zero problems, but those are extremely rare. All relationships take work. This goes for spiritual partnerships as well.

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