Maintaining a healthy relationship with a twin flame or soulmate isn’t always easy.
Even though both parties never want their relationship to take a downturn it does nonetheless. Relationships require work from both parties to sustain and maintain their union. You can’t just work at it here and there.
In maintaining a healthy relationship both parties have to make a conscious effort all the time. You can’t just put in the effort at the beginning stages of a relationship. You have to keep doing it throughout the relationship.
A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP BEGINS WITH COMMUNICATION
Communication is one of the key elements to maintaining a healthy relationship. You don’t have to communicate with a twin flame or soulmate constantly. Consistent communication is required though. You can’t have long periods of time where you barely speak and not expect the relationship to suffer. It’s much easier nowadays to communicate than it used to be. In truth there really is no excuse not to have the time to touch base with one another.
We all have busy lives juggling our romantic relationships, our jobs, kids and everything else. But if your priority is maintaining a healthy relationship you find the time for quality time together.
Quality time is time not just spent doing things as a couple, although that’s very important. It’s to reconnect and be a real part of one another’s lives. Maintaining a healthy relationship requires each of you take the time to find out what’s going on in the other’s life, head and heart. You have to keep nurturing the connection between you and your twin flame or soulmate.
Show an interest in what ‘ going on with their career, how they’re feeling, health wise and emotionally. Take the time to really listen to what they say. Be honest and get to the point. Don’t play games or use the silent treatment. Share with your partner and allow them to share with you. It may be hard to learn to work as a team when you’re so used to handling everything yourself. But you must if it’s going to work between you.
WHEN YOU FIGHT (AND THERE WILL BE FIGHTS)
Fighting is a part of life, even in healthy soulmate and twin flame relationships. Nobody is perfect and everyone can be annoying sometimes. Just don’t let it escalate. Learn to let things go if they’re little things. And learn how to deal with them appropriately and constructively when they’re big things. Have the goal of resolution to a problem rather than being right while the other one is wrong. The only real way to win an argument is to resolve it in a way that doesn’t create damage or hard feelings.
Maintaining a healthy relationship means maintaining healthy boundaries. Yes, that may bring about conflict. But boundaries between soulmates and twin flames are there for a reason. Boundaries with each other, and with other people, are a necessary part of any healthy relationship. You simply can’t have a healthy relationship without healthy boundaries.
Healthy relationships are more focused on the present and the future, rather that the past. The past is where you should have learned the lesson, the present and future is where you apply it. As long as the lesson is learned, and is not being repeated, it’s time to let the past go. If you want to maintain a healthy relationship you have to let past mistakes go and not hold grudges.
Healthy soulmate and twin flame relationships don’t just create themselves. They are created by couples who did the work and put in the time.