Is your soulmate or twin flame losing interest in your relationship? Was your soulmate or twin flame emotionally invested in your future yet now there’s distance between you? Does it feel as though you can’t do anything to get your soulmate or twin flame’s attention?
What could have caused this?
You may have been over it again and again in your head but can’t come up with anything tangible.
BEFORE GOING OFF THE DEEP END
First of all, calm down, it may not be as bad as you think. When we’re caught up in the connection and emotions of these relationships, it’s easy to go off the deep end. Before you obsess on every worse case scenario you can imagine, there could be an easy explanation.
Your soulmate or twin flame may not be losing interest in your relationship at all. It may just be that something else is going on in their life that needs their attention right now. Or it could be that this is the adjustment period where they have to find the balance between you and everything else.
When you first meet you talk on the phone for hours every day and spend entire weekends together. Now your communication has dropped off considerably and the time you spend together is dwindling. The first thing your mind jumps to is that your soulmate or twin flame is losing interest.
Couldn’t the most rational explanation be that the way it was when you first met is not actually sustainable long-term? Doesn’t your partner have to work, do their laundry, pay bills, and spend some time with family and friends? They put all that on the back burner in the beginning. But all those things cannot be ignored forever.
GETTING BACK TO REALITY
When you first started this relationship, you may have created a little bubble for the two of you. We hate to burst your bubble but you have to focus on things you neglected and parts of your life you’ve been ignoring. Now you have to incorporate your partner into your life, not make them your entire life. And it’s an adjustment period, plain and simple
Healthy people and healthy relationships have full, well-rounded lives. One person can’t do it all. It’s not up to one person to be your everything. That’s too much pressure and responsibility for one person. Perhaps you have a reality check after your whirlwind romance. So now you have to incorporate the relationship with your individual lives and responsibilities.
Don’t let insecurities get the better of you.
Handle this with your mind and not your ego. Change your romance novel of high expectations into mature, realistic ones. Think about it, if they spent that much time one the phone with you, surely they let some things in their life slip through the cracks. They may have work to catch up on or family matters they put off. And the list goes on and on.
How exactly do you expect to maintain what you had at the beginning without making a 48-hour day instead of a 24-hour day? Should they stop working? Never see their friends again? Toss away all their hobbies? Never clean their house? Not have any alone or mental health time? Obviously not.
So what if your twin flame or soulmate can’t spend every weekend with you. It is ok that they can’t always talk every day for hours on end. Don’t make it a big deal if they seem a distracted.
There are two choices for you. You can jump the gun and jump to negative conclusions. Or you can give your soulmate or twin flame the benefit of the doubt. If you jump to negative conclusions you can make your partner feel that you’re simply too needy and demanding.
Stop yourself for a minute. Give them a reasonable amount of time to turn their interest back in your direction. Support is better than creating drama.