Inconsistent behavior can really mess with your head.
You don’t know where you stand when your soulmate or twin flame’s behavior is inconsistent. One day you would swear they would do anything for you. The next day they act as though you’re the worst thing that ever happened to them.
So how can you build a strong foundation in your relationship when your partner’s words and actions are inconsistent? You can’t. The relationship takes one step forward then one step back. You can’t move forward doing that. The relationship stays stuck, not going anywhere but downward.
It is so hard when everything is going great then suddenly your partner behaves like a different person. What happened? You wrack your brain and cannot think of anything that could have caused this.
Sometimes when you’re alone together a soulmate or twin flame can behave lovingly. The problem is that when other people are around they act cool and aloof. What are you supposed to think with such mixed messages?
It’s hard to know what to think at times like this. How many times do you hear they love you and can’t live without you, then they threaten to break up with you or leave over something stupid? What are you supposed to believe?
BEST FRIEND OR WORST ENEMY?
There are many ways soulmate or twin flame behavior can be inconsistent. It’s hard to deal with someone when they’re your best friend but your worst enemy. When your spiritual partner’s behavior is inconsistent, the spiritual connection is both a blessing and a curse.
Many people have a hard time understanding the soulmate and twin flame connection. And what comes with is confusing and frightening as well. At first they fully accept the overwhelming emotions and behave accordingly. They just go with the flow with what they feel. Your soulmate or twin flame enjoys the fact they feel so comfortable so quickly. They feel at ease to open up and reveal their vulnerabilities.
At a certain point however, they have an inner struggle. And it’s at that point they behave in inconsistent ways. This can be very troubling to the other partner. It feels to them as though their partner has been kidnapped by aliens.
Suddenly, the person who made them feel better than ever is now making them feel worse. The one who brings them so much joy and contentment now brings misery and fear. There’s no easy way to handle this. You cannot apply logic because their behavior makes no sense. Everything they do or say contradicts itself at a certain point. It is really, really stressful trying to figure out what is going on.
DON’T GIVE IN TO FEAR
The one thing you should not do is succumb to that fear. Your soulmate or twin flame is not honoring your connection by behaving in inconsistent ways. If you start acting like them, and not having faith in your connection as well, you will both feed off one another. Nothing good will come of that. You have to stay strong and create and enforce boundaries.
If you have to remove yourself from the relationship for a while because they’re behaving so erratic, then please do so. Don’t stick around to allow more damage and obstacles to be created. It only makes things harder to get back to what they were. And the longer you let it continue, the longer it will take to going back to the consistent relationship should have.