Have you been hurt by your twin flame or soulmate? Do they even realize or seem to care that they hurt you?
Many times twin flames or soulmates can seem indifferent to the hurt they cause you through their words or behaviors. They seem to have no concern with how they negatively impact your relationship.
Sadly, many soulmates and twin flames often hurt one another.
DOES YOUR PARTNER TAKE RESPONSIBILITY?
You may feel you show your partner unconditional love yet they don’t seem to reciprocate that love. To make things feel worse, they don’t seem to feel guilty, or truly sorry after hurting you. How can you forgive your soulmate or twin flame when they show no remorse?
They can apologize, insisting they won’t repeat the behavior, but their words may mean nothing to you. When they repeatedly exhibit bad behavior, you no longer believe their words. And rightly so. Why would they repeat doing things to hurt you if they really feel bad about it? They wouldn’t, sad to say.
Have you been hurt but they have selective amnesia?
There are many soulmates and twin flames who act like they don’t feel bad at all. These people pretend nothing ever even happened. They expect you to let them off the hook, as if the whole thing was just a dream. You haven’t spoken to each other for a while and they may even have ghosted you. Yet here they come, making contact out of nowhere. They will give you a lame excuse, or not acknowledge what they have done at all.
They magically appear acting like everything is completely normal. And they fully expect to pick up where you two left off. They don’t feel bad about the things they said. There’s no guilt about the things they’ve done. To top it all off, they don’t want you to feel bad either, even though you were the one who was hurt. They may even try to give you some or all of the blame.
BEING HELD ACCOUNTABLE
Never let a soulmate, twin flame or anyone else pull this amnesia trick on you. Let them know you’ve been hurt, even if you’re the one that brings it up. Letting them know that until they show they actually have a conscience, apologize and acknowledge their behavior, there’s nothing to say.
They owe you an explanation and an apology. Any apology is better than acting as though it never happened. They have to take responsibility for their actions and should pay some consequences for them.
It’s not your responsibility to mend what they break, it’s theirs. It is their lesson to learn.They can’t even begin to fix things and help you heal if they refuse to acknowledge the elephant in the room.
It’s not up to you to make yourself feel better. You’re more than likely a good person. If you hurt someone, deliberately or not, you would own it. So why shouldn’t they? Just being a soulmate or twin flame shouldn’t let them off the hook.
If they’re a decent human being, they will do better.
So give them back the responsibility of fixing their own messes. Remember how you feel when a soulmate or twin flame hurt you and they refused to acknowledge it. You felt awful, unloved, and misunderstood.
You want your feelings validated and you want the person that hurt you to help you feel better. Don’t let your soulmate or twin flame off too easy. Don’t accept it when they tell you they suck at apologies. They can and they should. Stop making excuses for them. All human beings possess the ability to apologize. They may choose not to, but that’s their problem to fix. But it’s not your problem to put up with and accept.
A soulmate or twin flame connection is not about just enjoying the good times together. It is also about being there for one another when things are rough. Your soulmate or twin flame may not appear to feel guilty about their transgressions. This may be because you’re not calling them out on it.
Don’t sweep it under the rug. Set some boundaries to help your relationship get back on track. Let them learn the lessons the universe wanted them to. You may also learn some valuable lessons of your own. If you have been hurt by a twin flame or soulmate, it is time to take action.