Emotionally Unavailable Twin Flames and Soulmates

Emotionally unavailable twin flames or soulmates cause a lot of confusion.


For clarification purposes, in this article we’re using the term emotionally unavailable in a specific way. We’re referring to someone who is being emotionally unavailable to you. Meaning, this person you believe to be a soulmate or twin flame does not have the feelings for you. It’s not that they’re incapable of having romantic or strong feelings for anyone, they just don’t have them for you.

The universe wouldn’t create a spiritual connection between two people without the emotional component. It simply has no point and makes absolutely no sense. A soul connection goes both ways, it’s not a one way street. In a true soulmate or twin flame connection, what you feel, they feel. Period.


We realize this may upset some people, but if a person is not emotionally available to you, they’re not a soulmate or twin flame. (In the way described above.) You may feel strongly for them, but they do not return those feelings for you. That is unrequited love.

Not every person we have feelings for will have those same feelings for us. It happens to almost everyone. It is unrealistic to think that just because we’re attracted to someone that they will share the same attraction.

It’s a tough pill to swallow, and it hurts. But, it is reality, and must be accepted. Most people will find themselves in this position at some point in time. We find someone we think is perfect for us. The problem is they have feelings for someone else. Or, they may just like us as a friend or co worker. They want nothing more from us and are perfectly fine with how things are right now. It is disappointing, to say the least, but it’s not the end of the world.

Emotionally Unavailable Twin Flames and Soulmates
Emotionally Unavailable Twin Flames and Soulmates


Sure, you may think they are in denial of their true emotions. You may want to believe they’re running from the connection. But this is a connection that you believe you share, while they deny it. This could be true, but don’t count on it.

Some soulmates or twin flames do deny and run from connections. Keep in mind these spiritual partnerships are rare. People who don’t feel about you the way you feel about them, is more common. Not every person who doesn’t feel the same is a soulmate or twin flame in denial. In many cases they’re just being honest.

It’s heartbreaking when we are rejected. It is hard when someone is not emotionally available to us. But if this really is not a spiritual connection, it’s best to move on with your life. If they’re truly not your spiritual counterpart, then let it go. This way you can be ready for when your true twin flame or soulmate arrives.

Be willing to let go of anyone who is emotionally unavailable to you right now. You will not get the relationship you want from them, even if they’re in denial and you two have a real connection. Cut them loose and set them, and yourself, free.

Time may change things for them. One day they may be emotionally available to you and the two of you may have your chance. Nothing good will come trying to force them to acknowledge feelings they either don’t have or are unwilling to express.

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