Do you worry about your soulmate or twin flame? Has your soulmate or twin flame given you good reason to be worried? Have they said or done things that seem out of character? O, have they changed into someone you barely recognize?
Soulmates and twin flames have a strong connection and many people are ill-prepared to deal with it. Some will do anything and everything to sabotage the relationship. Until they’re ready to accept and embrace the connection, the relationship suffers.
Do you worry about your twin flame or soulmate for no good reason? Are the insecurities you have causing you to worry needlessly? It’s not up to your spiritual partner to take that insecurity away from you.
They can tell you and show you they love you until they’re blue in the face. Without your participation in healing your insecurity, it won’t be enough. Instead you’ll only get more insecure over time.
That insecurity will cause you to do and say things that will upset your partner. In turn, you’ll worry even more that you possibly ruined things or made them worse. It’s a vicious cycle and must be nipped in the bud before it gets out of hand.
IT STARTS WITH THE SOUL CONNECTION
Soulmate and twin flames relationships can be tough. These relationships are not just the romantic fairy tales people often think they are. When soulmates and twin flames first encounter one another, they have a hard time believing what’s happening to them.
No one has a clue what they’re going through and what the soul connection is doing to them. They try to explain it, but they know that very few people actually seem to get it. Until you encounter your own spiritual union, you really don’t fully understand.
They worry they’re crazy or losing their minds all together. It can very hard to navigate these relationships as they bring any issues you haven’t been addressing to the surface. Being forced to deal with something can cause a lot of people get uncomfortable and they may begin to show another side of themselves.
At first many soulmate couples ride on pure love and energy. They welcome the feelings and let their minds go adrift. When their logical mind returns, the worrying starts. Why do they feel so much for this person already?
This is not normal and it doesn’t make sense. It may be that they weren’t even looking for a relationship. They feel unprepared and their life is going through a total upheaval. One or both soulmates may be in relationships already.
How does this make sense? Why would the universe bring a soulmate or twinflame if they are not single? This is usually because you’re supposed to be single but won’t get out of the wrong relationship for whatever reason. There is your lesson right there.
CONFUSION AND ANXIETY
All these thoughts make a person very confused. They know what they feel, even if they try to deny it. But their thoughts remind them their feelings make no sense. While they try to make sense out of what happening, both parties usually start worrying and become filled with anxiety.
What if this isn’t real? What if this doesn’t last? Should I let myself go and invest in this 100% hoping they change their feelings or their mind? This person couldn’t feel the same way I do, right? All these questions, and more, give soulmates and twin flames plenty to worry about.
Soulmates and twin flames need to understand they’re taking a journey together. They might not be moving at the same speed, but they’re both moving in the same direction.
So, if your partner has not gotten all of their fears, doubts, and feelings of discomfort sorted out yet, relax. You are not going to always be at the same point in your journey at all times. You may have to wait a little while for them to catch up.
It might be tempting to do so, but you don’t want to drag them with you in an effort to hurry them along. It won’t work. They will fight you. Their pace is their own and you must respect it and not try to control it.
You also don’t want to start worrying about them too much, otherwise you’re slipping backwards too. It really doesn’t do any good, because worrying makes for really bad choices for the most part. Your feelings override good judgement. And you may find yourself making stupid excuses to do really stupid things that only make things worse.
That will create some damage, and guess what? You will wind up worrying even more!! This is not a healthy state to be in. Your relationship will now be making you miserable. Instead of worrying, try believing in the connection you have. Take strength from that connection and have it help you rid yourself of the negative thoughts and emotions that are dragging you down.