Commitment Issues for Twin Flames and Soulmates

Commitment issues occur in soulmate and twin flame relationships, just like any other romantic relationship.

People are often under the misconception  twin flames and soulmates come together when they’re both ready. This is far from the truth. Just because you’re ready for a  twin flame or soulmate to enter your life, doesn’t mean they’re quite ready. Soulmates and twin flames come together in alignment with divine timing. There’s a purpose to these relationships, and it isn’t always smooth sailing.

Unfortunately many soulmates or twin flames meet when neither is ready for a serious relationship, or any relationship for that matter. One of them could have commitment issues and difficulty embracing a long term relationship. They acknowledge their soul connection, but making a commitment scares them to death. And some will even run from it.


Commitment is obviously part of the personal or spiritual growth that comes with twin flames and soulmate relationships. Perhaps the couple have never experienced the kind of love that makes them want to commit to a relationship. Trust issues might cause them to run from commitment in the past. So the universe places a twin flame or soulmate in their lives to face their commitment issues head on.

Soulmates and twin flames may resist change and try to see if they can get away with having a casual relationship. They will test their soulmate or twin flame to see if they will allow a lack of commitment. If their partner let’s them, then there’s no reason to face their commitment issues.

Commitment Issues for Twin Flames and Soulmates
Commitment Issues for Twin Flames and Soulmates

So the lesson is ignored, and they make zero changes. Staying the same, for them, is easier than making such a huge lifestyle change. You, on the other hand, want a real commitment.

So how do you get your twin flame or soulmate to commit to you?

That’s easy enough. Don’t have a relationship with them without a commitment.

It’s as simple as that. What you allow will continue. You may be afraid of losing them. But they’re afraid of commitment. Those are two excuses. Excuses like that won’t create change and won’t make things better either. The purpose of your connection is to help them deal with their commitment issues. (Or you deal with yours.) You were not put in each other’s lives to enable each other to stay the same.

If you think a twin flame or soulmate will wait forever for you to commit, all we can say is don’t push your luck. When you least expect it, they will have had enough and cut you off and cut you out.

Of course you don’t need to rush into a committed relationship within days of meeting. That’s not necessary, although some soulmates and twin flames do just that. Within a reasonable amount of time a commitment should be coming. If your relationship lacks a commitment, it’s time to make the commitment to yourself that you’re not going to put up with it anymore.


4 thoughts on “Commitment Issues for Twin Flames and Soulmates”

  1. We have been having commitment issues, and it has really kept us from going to the next level. Do you think we will ever get to the next phase of our relationship?


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