Many people use guilt trips to manipulate partners, even soulmates and twin flames.
It’s one thing to feel guilty for doing something wrong to your spiritual partner. It makes sense to feel remorse if you have hurt them.
Guilt trips are another matter altogether. Soulmates and twin flames can use guilt trips in order to get what they want. They may want you to feel overly guilty for little things they can use against you.
When a spiritual partner uses guilt trips to get their way, or to get attention, they won’t stop by themselves. Once they see guilt trips work in their favor, they will use them against you as often as they like.
WHY USE GUILT TRIPS?
We all have the desire to express our feelings of hurt when a soulmate or twin flame makes us feel bad. We communicate to resolve the issues and move forward. This is not the intention of a guilt trip used by a spiritual partner. They pretend to be more hurt than they are and want you to feel worse than you should.
In doing so, they can get the attention they seek and the reward they want. Most people don’t realize if a person is taken on too many guilt trips, resentment will build. They recognize the guilt trips and the manipulation. They tire of feeling guilty for every little thing and emotionally distance themselves.
This will cause the deterioration of a spiritual union. We all know right from wrong and we all screw up. But the constant badgering that one spiritual partner does to the other that pushes the relationship over the edge. No one likes manipulation. And no one likes the manipulator after a while either.
HOW THEY WORK
Countless times we see examples of how this is used to control or manipulate a soulmate or twin flame. A common spiritual partners use guilt trips is by using the connection itself. For example: Let’s say Bob screws up royally. He is to attend a party with Brenda, but he is a no-show. Then he’s silent for a week, never calling or texting to explain his failure to appear. By the second week, Brenda is really pissed off.
Bob never calls her back and seems to vanish from the face of the earth. So she makes one last call and leaves a message saying she won’t tolerate this behavior. The relationship is over. So then Bob uses a guilt trip by texting back “But you’re the one who said we’re spiritual partners. I guess you’re lying to me. If we really have a soul connection you won’t break-up with me”.
It’s shocking to know how much this type of guilt trip happens in spiritual relationships. They use the soul connection as a way to constantly avoid consequences. They will also use it to keep their significant other from leaving them. So how do you avoid being taken on a soulmate guilt trip?
AVOIDING GUILT TRIPS
Well first of all, if you’re the only one really feeling guilty all the time, chances are you’re being taken on a guilt trip. You know right from wrong. If it really is a minor mistake or misunderstanding, there’s an easy resolution, especially if your partner is the one that screws up time and again.
You should never feel guilty for refusing to take anyone’s mistreatment of you. You should never feel bad about expressing your pain or hurt, as long as it is done properly. But neither one of you has the right to beat it to death over and over and bring it up year after year after year.
Guilt trips are like poison to soulmate and twin flame relationships. So don’t fall for them and don’t use them with your spiritual counterpart.
