Do you have to deal with a soulmate or twin flame who’s acting like a child?
Are you tired of catering to a child, rather than an adult you can depend on, in your relationship?
Does your soulmate or twin flame treat you rudely for no reason?
Do they act spiteful, vindictive or immature when they’re upset or don’t get their way?
Does your spiritual partner want the entire world, and your relationship, to revolve around just them?
DOES YOUR SOULMATE OR TWIN FLAME CREATE CHAOS AND CONFLICT?
If your partner does things on purpose to provoke an argument, you need to put a stop to it. You can’t allow someone who constantly acts like a child to be in control of your relationship. They’re going to ruin it. Sometimes, in soulmate and twin flame relationships, you have to resort to tough love.
When you’re with a spiritual partner, it stands to reason you want to show them love and support. You don’t want to have to call them out or create conflict. But sometimes you have to make an effort to fix the problem.
You should know when you’re at a crisis point in your relationship. Now is the time to act aggressively, not passively, when it reaches that point. Being passive isn’t going to get you anywhere, and it won’t get positive results. It will just enable them to continue acting like a child.
A child, not an adult, goes way overboard when they don’t need to. When you smile at a waiter or waitress, your adult partner should not fly into a jealous rage. It shouldn’t cause them to start making nasty comments towards you just because you’re being polite or civil to a member of the opposite sex.
Jealousy and insecurity are not excuses for adults to behave like children. You shouldn’t be breaking up every time they fly into a rage for no good reason.
YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN ADULT
If you can’t talk to your partner, and express yourself honestly, for fear they’ll get upset and go crazy, they’re acting like a child. Adult relationships have adult problems. So you need two adults willing and ready to tackle those problems.
Putting your emotions on the back burner isn’t going to fix anything. If you feel you deserve an apology, then hold them accountable for that apology. Don’t smooth things over yourself, and don’t let them off the hook by using the amnesia trick either.
Don’t let sex be the only way they fix things. You shouldn’t forgive and forget what they’ve done just because time passes, without an apology from them.
This is not the time to chime in and apologize for your reactions to what they did. Make them take responsibility and show remorse for what they’ve done wrong. Adults make amends when they’re truly sorry and don’t keep making the same mistakes.
Your spiritual partner needs to act like an adult, handle their own finances and stand on their own two feet. It’s not your responsibility to take care of yourself and them.
They need to pitch in and do the work neither of you want to do, rather than just wanting to play and have fun all the time. Running off to hang out with their friends, or focus on their hobbies, instead of doing the things they need to do, needs to stop.
Don’t let them off the hook, it keeps them from growing up. It won’t be a quick fix. There are a lot of things you can do to stop them from acting like a child when you need them to act like an adult.