Twin flames and soulmates serve as a to mirror each other.
Spiritual partners reflect back to one another, allowing each individual to see their true selves.
Only when they see their true selves can they evolve to be a better version of who they truly are. This allows them to become their truest and highest self. The mirror between soulmates and twin flames forces them to take a long hard look at who they really are, warts and all.
WHAT YOU SEE IN THE MIRROR
Do you have any insecurities you have been trying to keep at bay? If so, you can expect your partner to bring them to the surface. This happens so you can finally deal with them and get rid of them once and for all.
Actually any unresolved issues, especially when it comes to relationships, can be renounced as well. Getting rid of them will evolve you to a better person of yourself.
There are other forms of the mirror. Here you find a soulmate or twin flame who shares the same tastes in music, art, food choices and even lifestyle. They will discover their life paths have been a similar journey, with a lot of synchronicity although they were living separate lives.
For example, your grandmothers were born in the same little town in a foreign country. Such striking parallels are validation from the Universe of the soul connection.
It’s truly a joyous feeling to be with someone who has great compatibility with you on so many levels. You both feel you have finally met your match, the other half of yourself. And many times feel you share a brain. Everything seems to be moving along perfectly. You know this relationship is meant to be.
THE DARK SIDE OF THE REFLECTION
Very often the mirror can have a dark side when we must face issues within our psyches. This is especially true if we don’t want to work on them. This is actually the point where all hell will break loose and very often does.
Problems develop within the relationship especially when one of you doesn’t want to evolve. But this is why the Universe brought you together: to work on yourselves to become better versions of you.
For example, let’s say Tom and Miranda are soulmates. Tom starts sabotaging the relationship because of his insecurities from prior relationships. He tests Miranda to see if she will leave him, because he’s afraid she will.
So he breaks dates, acts weird and aloof, won’t talk about his feelings or tries to deny them. Now what Miranda should see in the mirror is Tom’s insecurity and the need for him to fix it.
Instead, Miranda gets insecure and becomes afraid Tom will end the relationship. She should see she needs to deal with his insecurity instead of creating her own. By getting insecure herself she is bringing even more insecurity into the relationship!
If Miranda wants Tom to be strong, shouldn’t she be strong herself? If Miranda wants Tom to believe in their soulmate connection, shouldn’t she? Miranda should be leading by example, as in an example of strength. By showing Tom weakness, she is feeding his insecurity as well as hers.
Because couples in spiritual relationships mirror one another it’s easy to get caught up in what they’re reflecting. At times like this each needs to see what they’re projecting, then go inward. What has their negative projection brought to your surface?
That is what you must deal with. Don’t mirror their negativity back to them, it will only grow. How can that help?
Mirroring, even the negative side of it, can be a great thing for twin flames and soulmates if they only learn the lessons brought to them and make the changes necessary to become better people.