Is your soulmate or twin flame out of control? Has your relationship gotten completely out of hand because of their actions?
It would be great if spiritual partners could have smooth transitions to these deep connections. Sometimes though, that can’t happen.
When soulmates or twin flames meet, the connection takes over, creating over the top feelings. When trying to regain control, things often spiral out of control.
HANDLING THE CONNECTION
Many spiritual partners are happy to experience the intense emotions and deep connection. Others freak out because it scares them. Most have never felt like this before. This can lead to denial, running away, and/or acting out. It’s these behaviors that cause on of partners to misbehave and act out.
When someone tries to deny the connection, they do anything and everything to try to prove it. Many will cut off their partner from any communication and social media. They will try to remove them from their life entirely. They may say hurtful things, negate any feelings for their spiritual counterpart or say that it’s not requited. And then they run.
BOTH PARTNERS ARE OUT OF CONTROL
An out of control partner may end the relationship abruptly and go back to an ex. On the other hand, they may start a new rebound relationship. This is extremely hurtful to the receiving partner, who in turn, may easily become chaotic themselves.
The one on the receiving end may not be able to stop thinking about the one who ran. And since these thoughts make them miserable, they’re unable to function. This results in losing sleep, not being able to focus on work and eating or drinking the wrong things.
They may also resort to out of control behavior themselves. They may stalk their soulmate or twin flame endlessly on social media. This could result in them leaving nasty messages or texts or showing up unannounced.
Some may even cause a scene in public. This could become a source of great embarrassment for both soulmate or twin flame partners that will lead to regret.
It only makes this worse when both people are out of control.
This becomes very difficult since the individuals in the connection mirror each other. So keeping control of your own emotions and behaviors is extremely important. Being irrational and coming from a place of anger, hurt, or fear is not going to get them anywhere.
When a twin flame or soulmate is out of control, distance really is the best thing. The best course of action is to leave them alone until they get control of themselves and are in control of their feelings, thoughts, and lives.
It may sound like a hard thing to do, but there will be less damage done than if both partners are out of control.