Instability can be a common problem in soulmate and twin flame relationships. It’s all due to the challenging nature these relationships often bring into our lives.
If you’re in soulmate or twin flame relationship, or were in the past, we can pretty much guarantee there was instability at some point.
HARD TO HANDLE THE INTENSITY
One of the most common ways a soulmate or twin flame relationship becomes unstable is when one or both partners have issues with the connection. Many people find it weird and unsettling to experience a spiritual union, especially if it’s their first one. The feelings and synchronicity are unexplainable, and perhaps even foreign. This is unlike anything they’ve felt before.
It’s hard to deal with these feelings when they’re new to you. It makes many question their own sanity. So it’s easy to see why some spiritual partners often resort to simply denying the connection exists. The instability remains until they work through their issues and accepts the connection. This is when the foundation of the relationship suffers.
RUNNING FROM THE CONNECTION
Usually when a soulmate or twin flame is in denial, they often become a runner. Everything can be perfect in your relationship, but they will still run like hell. In some cases they will drop off the face of the earth, out of the blue. And they do this without even a warning or conversation.
All communication ceases. They refuse to see you and may even can block you from social media. This is the time when the spiritual relationship should be building a strong foundation. Resisting the bond creates instability. This causes the relationship to fall into limbo.
Spiritual partners are often very fiery. So both their love and their arguments will be infused with passion. The levels of love and affection are often matched by the levels of acting out and fighting.
Disagreeing also causes a lot of instability in the relationship. They do things to each other that people who love each other could never do. On the flip side, they forgive each other for behaviors that others would deem unforgivable.
AFRAID TO STAND THEIR GROUND
They may be struggling with the intensity of the relationship. It’s also very possible they understand what the other is going through. Since many do not want to lose their partner, they let them get away with anything and everything.
They’re afraid if they take a stand, and air out their differences in more healthy ways, their spiritual partner will leave them. They don’t understand, no matter how many times we explain it, that if they allow bad behavior without consequences, it will be recurring. Then it becomes much worse.
This causes the relationship stagnate and this instability does a lot of damage. What they’re trying to save, they are actually causing to deteriorate. Their worst fear, losing their spiritual partner, is going to manifest. And this happens because they won’t do the right thing for themselves and the relationship.
When a relationship is unhealthy it gets to a point where it’s mostly negative and so it ends. In every relationship a couple should set healthy boundaries and enforce them. If they don’t, the relationship gets more and more dysfunctional and unstable.
It has no choice but to eventually come crashing down around them. Drama, acting out, cheating and game playing are all causes of instability. Those bad behaviors and actions need to be changed or the relationship will never be the harmonious one they both know it can be.