Confronting Your Twin Flame or Soulmate

Confronting your twin flame or soulmate can have a good or bad outcome.

Of course you want the most positive outcome, so use caution how and when you take a stand. A deciding factor for you should be the timing of the confrontation.

For instance, if your soulmate or twin flame is running from your connection, you may feel the need to confront them. Perhaps they’ve blocked you from their phone and social media. They may even be ghosting you. You feel insulted, hurt, and/or scared. Understandably so.

You want to resolve this issue and fix things. Chasing is not a good way to confront your twin flame or soulmate.

YOU WON’T GET THEM TO CHANGE THEIR MIND

You want to plead your case, help them through it and change their mind. So you set out to confront them, because none of this makes any sense.

There’s no rhyme or reason for them doing this to you. It doesn’t seem fair they dropped off the face of the earth with no explanation. You dissected every conversation you’ve had and every move you’ve made. No answer can be found.

You need them to tell you exactly what the heck happened. Now you’re depressed or angry and you have a few things you want to say to them. Confronting your twin flame or soulmate sounds like the only way to go at this point. This all sounds good in theory. However, chances are so slim you’ll have a receptive audience or receive a warm welcome.

They’re doing everything in their power to avoid you. And they won’t appreciate you demanding an audience with them. They obviously haven’t worked out their issues. If you confront them will it usually result in bad behavior and negative comments on their part. This normally leads to bigger issues for a couple, even twin flame or soulmate rejection. And who the hell needs that? No one.

WAIT UNTIL THEY’RE READY TO TALK

If your soulmate or twin flame is a runner it’s not wise to chase after them and confront them. This is a lesson they have to learn by themselves. Unfortunately, you have to give them the space to do that, or risk prolonging them learning their lesson.

Wait until they want to speak or see you again. All the things you want say by confronting your twin flame or soulmate would have gone in one ear and out the other anyway. So in other words, they wouldn’t hear you. But now they’re ready, willing and able to at least hear you out. Now you have a chance of them being open and honest instead of defensive.

There’s also a good chance they will learn something while you’re apart. If they do they’ll honestly explain what they were going through back then.

While they were in runner mode, they would have lied to you anyway. Now there’s a higher probability to have a real discussion, and be heard, to begin the healing process. If you confront your twin flame or soulmate when they cut you off, you’d have just been hurt again.

Keep in mind that confronting your twin flame soulmate is not enough.

You have to show them through your actions that you have learned your lessons as well. Creating and enforcing new boundaries is a good action to take now. You have to show them their actions not only brought about change in them but created changes in you as well. They need to see, and not only hear, that you’re not going to put up with bad behavior, period.

You may feel you simply must confront your twin flame or soulmate now. But we advise you to wait until the timing is right to do so. Don’t let your emotions cause you to make a huge mistake.